In the field of drug and/or addiction and recovery, the term “intervention” is frequently used while some people have never heard of a drug or alcohol intervention or even know what an interventionist is.   Some people might have seen the TV series and think it as the dramatic scenes portrayed on television, while others might see it as merely a straightforward confrontation with individual about their substance use.

In this article we will enlighten you on what an intervention for drug and alcohol addiction is, how it is defined and what steps take place to properly execute a successful intervention for your loved one.

When it comes to intervening on a loved one, we like to think of ourselves as the “First First Responders” as we want to get there and help the addicted person make a positive choice to change the direction of their life before the police, fire department, ambulance or worse, hearse arrive.

Intervention: Help a Loved One Overcome Drug or Alcohol Addiction

When dealing with addiction, effective interventions can be a critical step in helping a loved one take the first steps toward recovery. An intervention acts as a structured opportunity for a loved one to accept their addiction and agree to seek help. There are many intervention strategies that can be employed to achieve specific well thought out goals to help the addict and family move forward in life in a healthy manner.

Families can learn about addiction, addiction treatment options, what an intervention entails, how to start one, and what to expect afterward. Each intervention is uniquely tailored to address the specific needs of the loved one, ensuring the best chance for acceptance and subsequent treatment.

How is an Intervention Defined?

Intervention or the act of intervening can be defined as a means of stopping or addressing something that is usually harmful and includes a specific plan of action to do so.

According to Merriam-Webster there are a few definitions for the word intervention. One being the act of interfering with the outcome or course especially of a condition or process (as to prevent harm or improve functioning) and the other being an occurrence in which a person with a problem (such as a drug addiction) is confronted by a group (as of friends or family members) whose purpose is to compel the person to acknowledge and deal with the problem.

An intervention is a structured process used to address addiction or other mental health issues by involving family members, friends, and a professional interventionist. The goal of an intervention should center on creating an opportunity for the individual struggling with addiction to accept help willingly.

Intervention for drug or alcohol addiction involves careful, strategic planning and should include a professional interventionist, who can guide families through the emotional process. A successful intervention not only helps the loved one struggling with addiction but also provides support and education for the entire family.

It’s crucial to understand that the primary goal of an intervention is to break through the denial and resistance commonly associated with addiction and mental health disorders. By having a clear understanding of what an intervention entails, participants can better prepare and understand the steps necessary to support their loved one through this critical situation, leading them toward recovery and mental well-being.

What is an Intervention?

An intervention is a carefully planned process where concerned friends and family members come together to confront a loved one about their addiction and encourage them to seek help. Interventions are often advised by health professionals, as they can be emotionally and mentally taxing. The goal is to highlight the negative impact of the addiction on the individual’s health and relationships, urging them towards recovery.

An effective drug and alcohol intervention involves 6 steps that are crucial in ensuring the best possible outcome. These steps are:

1. Deciding – The word “deciding” is derived from the Latin word dēcīdere, which is composed of two parts:
   • “de-“: A Latin prefix meaning “off” or “away.”
   • “caedere”: A Latin verb meaning “to cut.”

When combined, dēcīdere literally means “to cut off.” In a metaphorical sense, this evolved to mean making a decision, as in cutting off other options, and obstacles and choosing a particular path.

When it comes to a drug or alcohol intervention it is very easy to slip into second guessing yourself, especially when things get emotional and if you get push back from friends, family or your addicted loved one. When you truly decide to save your loved one’s life you cannot turn back, regardless of any obstacles. Your loved one’s life, and possibly yours or someone else’s, depends on it.

2. Planning – Includes things like choosing a treatment facility, when and where the intervention is going to take place and who is going to participate. A carefully thought-out intervention plan greatly increases the chances of success. A poorly executed intervention can make things worse by driving your addicted loved one further from accepting help. You may not get another chance.

3. Preparation – Being fully prepared would include:

• Ensuring there is a bed available at your chosen treatment center.
• Writing an intervention letter.
• Pre-packing a bag prior to the intervention.
• Looking over travel arrangements.
• Listing out all objections your addicted loved one is going to throw at you.
• Being ready for any possible reaction. This can get emotional.
• Handling the manipulative tactics that are always present.
• Having a clearly defined goal of the intervention.
• Establishing consequences if the person refused help.
• Have a pre-intervention meeting and rehearsal discussing the above.
• Holding strong for the long term.

A drug or alcohol intervention is not meant to just get your loved one to agree to get help but to achieve lasting sobriety.

4. Executing the Intervention – After all the planning and preparation have been completed, it’s time to carry out the intervention. The success of this intervention heavily depends on the participants involved, which is why selecting the right individuals is crucial. Ideally, those involved should be the most emotionally mature and determined family members. Close friends can also be included, but it’s essential to avoid involving anyone who might easily give up. Individuals who enable the addict or those who express doubts before the intervention should not be present. Additionally, if there are any family members who are heavy drinkers or drug users, it is important to inform the interventionist beforehand.

Choosing the Location and Timing

The location plays a significant role in the success of the intervention. It should be a place that is completely controlled, free from distractions like ringing phones or unexpected visitors. Everyone present should be actively participating in the intervention. If the intervention is held at a family member’s home, it’s important to choose a location that is outside of the addict’s comfort zone. A hotel room miles away from home can be an ideal setting. Avoid public places like restaurants and ensure that children are safely cared for elsewhere. Pets should also be removed from the scene. Consider the physical layout of the chosen space, including potential escape routes. While it may seem unnecessary, it’s important to remember that the person struggling with addiction may feel cornered with no way out.

For more information on the above please feel free to reach out to us at any time.

There is an exact sequence we use when entering the location of the intervention is to take place and YOU NEVER INFORM THE addicted person ahead of time!

We know this can seem sneaky or underhanded, but you have the remember we are dealing with someone who has a dependency on drugs or alcohol, and we must stack the deck in our favor to ensure the best possible outcome.

5. Establishing Boundaries, also known as Consequences or the Bottom Line

A successful intervention hinges on the participants’ ability to establish firm boundaries. The family must be prepared to take decisive actions to convince the addicted person that they need help. Any sign of weakness can be exploited by the addict. While most addicts don’t wish to remain trapped in addiction forever, the grip of drugs is incredibly strong. Therefore, the decision to seek help must be immediate, with no time for the addict to reconsider. The family should agree on the specific consequences that will be enforced if the addict refuses treatment.

For instance, these consequences might include changing the locks to prevent the addict from entering the home. The family could cancel the addict’s cell phone service, stop providing financial support, and cease paying their bills or covering medical expenses. They might also decide to no longer bail them out of jail or assist with any legal issues. The family could move the addict’s belongings out of the house and forbid their return. If the addict is already in legal trouble, the family may threaten to revoke their parole, file for a restraining order, or contact the authorities if necessary. It is crucial to uphold these boundaries without wavering. If the family fails to follow through on the consequences, they risk enabling the addict to continue their destructive behavior.

The above can seem harsh, but keep in mind there is only three ways an addiction of this magnitude stops. The addicted person enters treatment, they end up in jail or the hospital or the worst-case scenario – DEAD.

Doing the above actions could prevent your loved one from killing themselves or someone else. If a well thought out intervention with the family showing love and compassion is not enough to change the addicted person’s mind, then that shows you how addicted the person is.

The idea is that you have to create a scenario that makes entering treatment the better alternative than the consequences that you are implementing.

6. Carrying out the consequences – Carrying out the consequences of an intervention is a critical step that underscores the seriousness of the situation and the commitment of those involved to help the addict seek treatment. Once boundaries have been clearly set, it’s essential that they are consistently enforced. This follow-through shows the addict that their behavior will no longer be tolerated and that the family and friends are serious about them getting help.

The consequences, such as cutting off financial support, changing locks, or withdrawing emotional support, should be communicated during the intervention and implemented immediately if the addict refuses treatment. The goal is not to punish, but to create a situation where the addict understands that continuing their current behavior will lead to increasingly negative outcomes, and that seeking addiction help is the best and only option.

However, enforcing these boundaries can be emotionally challenging. Families may feel guilt or fear about the addict’s response, but wavering or retracting these consequences can undermine the entire intervention. It sends a mixed message and may allow the addict to continue their destructive behavior. Therefore, it’s crucial for all involved to remain resolute, offering support for recovery but being firm in their stance against enabling the addiction.

The aim is always to improve the health of your loved one and guide them to a suitable treatment program. If done right, an intervention can be a turning point in their journey to better health and a substance-free life.

How Do You Start an Intervention?

Starting an intervention for a loved one can be challenging, but it’s a crucial step in helping them overcome addiction.  You can review the above-mentioned steps to get a good idea if needed but here is where to start.

First, gather a group of people who are close to your loved one and are dedicated to seeing a positive change. Plan the intervention carefully, considering the best time and setting for the discussion. A professional interventionist will be helpful to guide the process. During the intervention, express your concerns with compassion and emphasize the impact the addiction has had on everyone’s lives. Encourage your loved one to seek help and offer support throughout their journey. Remember, the goal of the intervention is to prompt your loved one to accept the need for change and start a path to recovery.

What Happens After the Intervention?

After an intervention, the primary goal is for your loved one to accept help and embark on a journey toward recovery. It’s crucial for the family to stay actively involved, offering emotional support, and encouraging addiction and mental health treatment. Comprehensive plans should be made to address both addiction and any other health issues. Often, this involves inpatient or outpatient programs and ongoing counseling.

Family members may also need to participate in therapy sessions to understand the dynamics of addiction and to learn how to provide the best support. If your loved one agrees to treatment post-intervention, the family’s role doesn’t end; instead, it transforms into a continuous support system essential for long-term recovery. Effective interventions are just the first step in helping your loved one overcome addiction and reclaim their life.

Sober Coaching as part of the overall Intervention Package.

Newman Intervention and Addiction Services offers an after-rehab component known as Sober Coaching. Sober coaching after rehab can be a vital component of the recovery process and a natural extension of the intervention. While rehab provides the initial foundation for sobriety, the real challenge often begins when individuals return to their everyday lives. Sober coaches offer continuous support during this critical transition, helping individuals navigate the triggers and temptations that may arise post-rehab.

A sober coach works closely with the recovering individual to develop healthy habits, build a strong support system, and reinforce the coping strategies learned in rehab. They provide guidance, accountability, and encouragement, ensuring that the individual stays on track with their recovery goals. This one-on-one support can be particularly beneficial in preventing relapse, as the coach helps identify early signs of trouble and intervenes before they escalate.

Integrating sober coaching into the overall intervention process ensures that the individual is not only encouraged to seek treatment but also supported throughout their journey to long-term sobriety. By maintaining a connection to the recovery community and reinforcing the lessons learned in rehab, sober coaching plays a crucial role in helping individuals build a fulfilling, substance-free life.

What if Our Loved One Says “No” and Refuses Help?

When our loved one says “no” and refuses help, it’s not uncommon to feel disheartened. However, it’s crucial to understand that the initial refusal doesn’t mean failure. Loving someone through addiction requires patience and persistence. Even when a loved one declines the intervention, it doesn’t mean the effort was in vain. It’s important to continue offering support and reinforcing the fact that professional help is available whenever they’re ready.

Keep in mind that reaching out to a loved one multiple times may eventually lead to acceptance. Statistics suggest that holding your ground and keeping in your boundaries and multiple touchpoints can increase the likelihood that a loved one will seek help.

Highlighting that intervention professionals can assist in guiding families on how to approach these challenges might also alleviate some stress. After all, overcoming addiction is a journey and not merely a one-time event.  An intervention can be a long process, but remember, its not a sprint, it’s a marathon. One that lead to lasting recovery for your loved one.

What Happens Next When Our Loved One Says “Yes”?

When our loved one says “yes” to seeking help, it marks a monumental step towards recovery and improved health.

LEAVE IMMEDIATLEY! It is essential to leave immediately once the addicted person agrees to treatment because any delay can lead to a change of heart or second thoughts. The decision to seek help is often made in a moment of clarity or crisis, and lingering allows time for doubt, fear, or denial to creep back in. Addiction has a powerful hold, and even a brief pause can give the addicted person an opportunity to rationalize continuing their destructive behavior.

Immediate action also reinforces the seriousness and urgency of the situation. By leaving right away, the family and intervention team demonstrate their commitment to helping the addict get the help they need, making it clear that there is no room for hesitation or negotiation. Additionally, prompt departure prevents the influence of external factors, such as negative comments from others or environmental triggers, which could derail the decision.

Transporting the addicted person directly to a treatment facility ensures that they remain in a supportive environment where professional help is readily available. This minimizes the risk of relapse or withdrawal from the decision, increasing the likelihood of a successful transition into treatment and, ultimately, recovery.

Loved ones will play an essential role in this journey, providing emotional support and encouragement. The initial phase often includes a thorough assessment by medical professionals to determine the best course of action. Treatment options may range from detox programs to longer-term rehab facilities. The goal is to ensure our loved one receives the specialized care necessary for sustainable recovery. Close monitoring and regular updates will help track their progress, and family involvement remains crucial. By taking this positive action, your loved one is beginning a critical path to lasting health and renewed well-being.

Intervention Education Resources

Newman Intervention and Addiction Services offers a robust selection of educational resources to support families and individuals in the battle against addiction. Among these is the “How to Do an Intervention” online course, providing detailed instructions for planning and executing a successful intervention. This course is designed to give families the tools and confidence needed to approach their loved ones with care and effectiveness.

Complementing the course, Newman also provides “25 Tips for a Successful Intervention,“ which offers actionable advice and strategies to improve the chances of a positive outcome. For those looking for a deeper dive, the Complete Intervention Guide walks families through every stage of the process, from initial planning to follow-up care.

Additionally, Newman offers the Secrets to Successful Recovery book, a valuable resource filled with insights and strategies for maintaining long-term sobriety. This comprehensive suite of resources ensures families are well-equipped to support their loved ones on the path to recovery.

Interventions Are Designed for Families

Interventions are a crucial tool designed for families facing the immense challenge of helping a loved one overcome addiction. Families often feel powerless and alone in their efforts, but an intervention can offer a structured approach that harnesses the strength of the family unit. By involving multiple family members, an intervention demonstrates a collective commitment to helping the struggling individual seek necessary treatment.

It’s essential for every family to understand that they don’t have to face this difficult journey on their own. Utilizing professional guidance during an intervention ensures that both the family and the individual receive the support they need. Ultimately, interventions are not just for the addicted individual but are also designed to provide families with hope, strength, and a clear path forward. In this way, the family becomes an integral part of the healing process.

Interventions are as much for the family, if not more, than the addict. Interventions help the family move into a proactive position when dealing with the addict than being in a constant reactive state.

Help Transform Healthcare with Newman Intervention & Addiction Services

At Newman Intervention & Addiction Services, we’re passionate about transforming healthcare by addressing both physical and mental health. With a dedication to providing comprehensive care, Newman Intervention & Addiction Services is a leader in integrating innovative treatments and cutting-edge research.

Whether you’re seeking information on addiction or looking for personalized treatment options, their expertise ensures your loved ones receive the highest quality of care. By focusing on holistic approaches, Newman Intervention & Addiction Services helps patients achieve better mental health outcomes.

Newman Intervention and Addiction Services emphasizes alternative addiction treatment and mental health options that prioritize holistic and non-pharmacological approaches. While recognizing the necessity of short-term medications for medical detoxification, Newman works with treatment programs and methods that do not rely heavily on psychotropic medications, methadone, or buprenorphine as substitutes. Instead, the service advocates for therapies that address the root causes of addiction, such as counseling, behavioral therapy, and lifestyle changes. By working with addiction treatment programs that are offering personalized treatment plans that focus on sustainable recovery without long-term medication dependency, Newman provides individuals with the tools to achieve lasting sobriety and mental wellness.

About Newman Intervention & Addiction Services

Newman Intervention and Addiction Services, with over 40 years of experience, excels in guiding individuals and families through the intervention process and addiction recovery. We emphasize holistic and alternative treatment methods, focusing on mental health and sustainable recovery while minimizing reliance on long-term psychotropic medications and drug substitutes like methadone and buprenorphine. In addition to their comprehensive intervention strategies, Newman offers sober coaching to support individuals throughout their recovery journey. This personalized coaching helps clients navigate post-rehabilitation challenges, reinforcing their commitment to sobriety. By integrating these elements, Newman provides a well-rounded approach to achieving lasting sobriety and overall well-being.

Substance Abuse and Addiction Treatment

Today’s addiction treatment options often rely heavily on replacement drugs, such as methadone and buprenorphine, alongside traditional therapy. While these methods can be effective for some, they primarily focus on substituting one substance for another, which may not address the underlying causes of addiction.

Alternative approaches, however, offer promising success rates by focusing on holistic and comprehensive treatment strategies. These alternatives include therapies that address the root psychological, emotional, and behavioral issues associated with addiction. Methods such as cognitive-behavioral therapy, mindfulness practices, and lifestyle changes aim to heal and empower individuals without long-term dependence on replacement medications.

By integrating approaches that promote overall well-being and personal growth, these alternatives often provide a more sustainable path to recovery, addressing addiction’s complexities in a more profound and lasting way. This holistic focus not only helps individuals achieve sobriety but also supports their long-term mental and emotional health.